1 Weekend 2 Bday Parties

Well Sept 29th was my 27th Bday party. Previously I have already invited the closests friends and glad most of them could make it, others did say they will make up for it. Except one who said the puppy was sick, well if you think a puppy is more important than your friend's bday, then have fun with your puppy and make sure you give the dog a good lick in the ass when he dies.

I wasn't looking into inviting one guy who drank everyone's drink on my 26th Bday and basically was as cheap as hell that day. Once was already enough for me.

Party was fun, red wine and beer were flying everywhere, my dad picked some good Spanish and French wine for me, and they were tremendous. Thx Dad you are the greatest man I have ever known.

Zu came down from GZ and Ben specifically took a trip from Macau to attend this. Letty brought a friend and most of the people who should've been there were there. It was a great birthday, shit we even went as far as singing Backstreet Boyz, and when I was drunk you know shits are fun. I went around and basically kiss everyone to the lips, that has to be the gayest bday party I have ever had. The ladies knows though, just what kind of a man I am inside ;)

The only that was so drunk that passed out was Chris, shit we even have pictures to prove it (Shit Sammy is a hilarious SOB when he is wasted lol).


Meanwhile, Willie, Zu and I went to sing the shape of my heart to the ladies (FYI Other FUGLY people are not our friends).
 

Here are other images from the "Crime Scene"



We are left with the last one of Chris getting so wasted he passed out lol

The next night was Avis' birthday, Ki and I went. Me of course, being the big bro just had to be there to help taking care of things, here are the pics.

We are left with Don being drunk and a big red long cushion on his crotch lol.

Thank you guys for being there, you guys are tremendous.

School Started, Miss My Grandma and New Zealand

Well school started on August 27th and I went in early. I don't quite like how the school is ran to be honest, classes are extremely conservative and seems the school's administration is very complicated. Unlike the US, if you have to do a certain thing, all you have to do is just go through one department and you will be all set. With HKIEd however, it is a completely different story. You have to go through 3 to 4 departments to get the right answer and the right procedure done. Just plain crazy.

Sadly, my grandmother passed away that very morning that I went to school. I didn't find out until the night I got home. My parents and my brother didn't want to tell me until I got back. I was so torn up on the inside when I found out. I called up a few friends, supposely wanted to hang out, because I feel so bad that night, but I cried so much at the last moment my eyes were swelling so bad, Ki was actually on his way to his NT home and even called me to come out, because he knows I rarely sound demotivated and upset, except those times when he lived with me and I was going through some problem with my ex at the time. I cried so many times since she passed away to yesterday when we buried her. My grandma loved us so much. When I was at the funeral home, I tried to put on a smile. But it was really hard for me, Chris and Kelvin came over and help taking care of guests, which I thanked them for.

I missed my grandmother so much, I didn't press the button. But my brother did, as soon as he pressed it, I balled my eyes out. I cried so bad that my body was shaking, that was probably the first time I was like this. My grandmother was the strongest woman I have ever known. He came through a lot of shit during all those years, and she was always so damn proud of me and my brother, the only grandsons of hers. She lived through to the time I got my BA in Marketing. But the thing I feel so sad about is, when I get this degree, she won't be there taking a picture with me.

The good thing is, when my grandmother passed away, she was in such a peaceful state. So at least she didn't have to suffer anything. At 92, she saw a lot around the world, and she would definitely show you who was the boss. My grandma would say the funniest shit, and she loved to eat. She was probably the only old person I know who could eat so much. One thing for sure, I know she is in a good place with all her Ma Jong buddies.

Well I will be heading to New Zealand for 6 weeks in November to December. I guess it is good, since I get to clear my mind a little. With everything that has been going on, I need to clear my head a bit, I will be back in time for Christmas though, so that should be nice. A few weeks before my bday, I don't even know what I am gonna do yet, but in time, I sure will know.

Getting Too Old 4 This Shit......

Well last Saturday marks Clara's bday. I stayed around as long as I could, but I just kinda lost the feel of clubbing. Back in the ClubING days, 5-6 years ago, long before it became the ultra disgusting Tribeca, we would have a blast every Thursday and every Saturday, it was THE SHIT back in the day. Everynight we would have hot enough girls on our table, the music was good. The crowd was classy, it would be Ric Flair's motto to all the ladies, "None of you will be the first, but one of you can be next!"

It was so damn hot to a point where even it was packed, but the atmosphere is so good that there was no way you wouldn't club and dance your ass off. I remember 4 years ago when I went to ING and I met this girl from Kansas named Shannon, boy she had the boom boom that everyone would wanna zoom zoom! She had me loosen up a little and man everytime she saw me we would hit it off, she was classy as hell, but wrong timing because I was with Sandra at the time.

Anyway, getting back to Clara's bday, I stayed around and saw some of the friends that I haven't seen in months, Jackie is still Crispy Creme lol, Avis was arguing with Little Prince (That makes me think I made a right choice of not seriously dating anyone at this point. Yes sis I know you will probably be mad at me when I say this lol), Christina and Loretta is still together, which is sweet. Stephen is still chubbier than I am lol. Nothing really changed, except me being in a clubbing scene, just no longer feel it. Jase actually had good conversations with me, well I guess when I was around she wasn't drunk lol. So I stayed around had a few drinks with the bday girl and left.

Maybe I grew out of clubbing, and really want to build my life around with things that I can do best. Sure every now and then hanging with friends and for a few drinks ain't a bad idea, I actually was hanging with Vincent, Letty and Ki last Weds at Rio and I had a blast. I guess if I could go somewhere where I can smoke, drink had some good conversations and sing my ass off I will be straight. Perhaps my surroundings have pretty much changed me. Most of my friends still enjoy a regular Saturday night gig, that being clubbing, but a lot of us are so busy sometimes that don't club as much anymore.

Now I enjoy a little massage, drink with a few friends, have a few laughs and don't wanna give a shit about the people who has talked crap about me for god knows how long, just because they can't achieve something that I can. Well you lost, I am still winning.

I guess since I have gotten back to Hong Kong, I became more and more conservative and more reserved. I guess I am heading to the right direction to go into teaching school and get my teaching degree. I should be one intimidating teacher lol.

Well August 3rd and 4th will be Macau, which I always love to go since I had a blast last time I went, August 5th for K-1 Grand Prix in Hong Kong (Man love to see Remy Bonjasky's kicks in person). and "Summerslam" on August 18th, that should be a fun time with the boys. It seems like for the first time in the 4 years I have been back, I finally found my confort zone. Bagua didn't do much for me, being and Executive Assistant wasn't that much fun either. I realized in order to make something work, I cannot rely on everyone around me, because not too many people will understand what I want to do and willing to do, and things are began to set tone and I can't wait when things come out doing well and evolve on its own.

There are several projects I am working on, and I am dying to see the success that comes out of it. I love it when every time people doubt that I can never make it and think I look like shit, and at the end I come out smelling like a rose and they all are eating the same shit they thought was the best goddamn thing in the world. Well it was like when someone was saying I can't be dealing with Jakks during my trip to the US, because I was incapable to talk to the high-ups, well one 200 pages of my own background work and information that they could not get proved otherwise. Now I am the one that basically put the stopped to stolen goods from the factory for Jakks. Yes I was the snitch lol, and I get my stocks directly from them. So to the naysayers, bite my fat ass!

I know I came through hell and back to achieve what I am doing and I want to make sure things go well no matter what. Because I see the potential that I have the what I see in some people that can make it happen. You have a problem with me doing that? Well when was the last time I give a ratass about one may think? If I never went ahead to do something that I think that can be done. I would be like the bunch of people that doubted me. I proved my point, made my point and now I made it. I know that's a major fuck you to a lot of people, but well, all I have to say is, "You could do it too, if you believe in it."

I have a huge ego, but my ego is what kept me being able to do the damn thing that I can that nobody can. There is a train ride that will leave you to paradise, and if you believe in it, you jump on it, and people that first believe it then doubted it jumped off and they lose out. I am still driving to paradise. Because I will always believe in what I am able to achieve.

The aftermath of the Benoit tragedy...

Out of HK for a week!