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1 Weekend 2 Bday Parties

Tue, 02 Oct 2007 16:18:36 GMT

Well Sept 29th was my 27th Bday party. Previously I have already invited the closests friends and glad most of them could make it, others did say they will make up for it. Except one who said the puppy was sick, well if you think a puppy is more important than your friend's bday, then have fun with your puppy and make sure you give the dog a good lick in the ass when he dies.

I wasn't looking into inviting one guy who drank everyone's drink on my 26th Bday and basically was as cheap as hell that day. Once was already enough for me.

Party was fun, red wine and beer were flying everywhere, my dad picked some good Spanish and French wine for me, and they were tremendous. Thx Dad you are the greatest man I have ever known.

Zu came down from GZ and Ben specifically took a trip from Macau to attend this. Letty brought a friend and most of the people who should've been there were there. It was a great birthday, shit we even went as far as singing Backstreet Boyz, and when I was drunk you know shits are fun. I went around and basically kiss everyone to the lips, that has to be the gayest bday party I have ever had. The ladies knows though, just what kind of a man I am inside ;)

The only that was so drunk that passed out was Chris, shit we even have pictures to prove it (Shit Sammy is a hilarious SOB when he is wasted lol).

Meanwhile, Willie, Zu and I went to sing the shape of my heart to the ladies (FYI Other FUGLY people are not our friends).

Here are other images from the "Crime Scene"

We are left with the last one of Chris getting so wasted he passed out lol

The next night was Avis' birthday, Ki and I went. Me of course, being the big bro just had to be there to help taking care of things, here are the pics.

We are left with Don being drunk and a big red long cushion on his crotch lol.

Thank you guys for being there, you guys are tremendous.

School Started, Miss My Grandma and New Zealand

Tue, 11 Sep 2007 15:24:03 GMT

Well school started on August 27th and I went in early. I don't quite like how the school is ran to be honest, classes are extremely conservative and seems the school's administration is very complicated. Unlike the US, if you have to do a certain thing, all you have to do is just go through one department and you will be all set. With HKIEd however, it is a completely different story. You have to go through 3 to 4 departments to get the right answer and the right procedure done. Just plain crazy.

Sadly, my grandmother passed away that very morning that I went to school. I didn't find out until the night I got home. My parents and my brother didn't want to tell me until I got back. I was so torn up on the inside when I found out. I called up a few friends, supposely wanted to hang out, because I feel so bad that night, but I cried so much at the last moment my eyes were swelling so bad, Ki was actually on his way to his NT home and even called me to come out, because he knows I rarely sound demotivated and upset, except those times when he lived with me and I was going through some problem with my ex at the time. I cried so many times since she passed away to yesterday when we buried her. My grandma loved us so much. When I was at the funeral home, I tried to put on a smile. But it was really hard for me, Chris and Kelvin came over and help taking care of guests, which I thanked them for.

I missed my grandmother so much, I didn't press the button. But my brother did, as soon as he pressed it, I balled my eyes out. I cried so bad that my body was shaking, that was probably the first time I was like this. My grandmother was the strongest woman I have ever known. He came through a lot of shit during all those years, and she was always so damn proud of me and my brother, the only grandsons of hers. She lived through to the time I got my BA in Marketing. But the thing I feel so sad about is, when I get this degree, she won't be there taking a picture with me.

The good thing is, when my grandmother passed away, she was in such a peaceful state. So at least she didn't have to suffer anything. At 92, she saw a lot around the world, and she would definitely show you who was the boss. My grandma would say the funniest shit, and she loved to eat. She was probably the only old person I know who could eat so much. One thing for sure, I know she is in a good place with all her Ma Jong buddies.

Well I will be heading to New Zealand for 6 weeks in November to December. I guess it is good, since I get to clear my mind a little. With everything that has been going on, I need to clear my head a bit, I will be back in time for Christmas though, so that should be nice. A few weeks before my bday, I don't even know what I am gonna do yet, but in time, I sure will know.

Getting Too Old 4 This Shit......

Wed, 25 Jul 2007 18:15:53 GMT

Well last Saturday marks Clara's bday. I stayed around as long as I could, but I just kinda lost the feel of clubbing. Back in the ClubING days, 5-6 years ago, long before it became the ultra disgusting Tribeca, we would have a blast every Thursday and every Saturday, it was THE SHIT back in the day. Everynight we would have hot enough girls on our table, the music was good. The crowd was classy, it would be Ric Flair's motto to all the ladies, "None of you will be the first, but one of you can be next!"

It was so damn hot to a point where even it was packed, but the atmosphere is so good that there was no way you wouldn't club and dance your ass off. I remember 4 years ago when I went to ING and I met this girl from Kansas named Shannon, boy she had the boom boom that everyone would wanna zoom zoom! She had me loosen up a little and man everytime she saw me we would hit it off, she was classy as hell, but wrong timing because I was with Sandra at the time.

Anyway, getting back to Clara's bday, I stayed around and saw some of the friends that I haven't seen in months, Jackie is still Crispy Creme lol, Avis was arguing with Little Prince (That makes me think I made a right choice of not seriously dating anyone at this point. Yes sis I know you will probably be mad at me when I say this lol), Christina and Loretta is still together, which is sweet. Stephen is still chubbier than I am lol. Nothing really changed, except me being in a clubbing scene, just no longer feel it. Jase actually had good conversations with me, well I guess when I was around she wasn't drunk lol. So I stayed around had a few drinks with the bday girl and left.

Maybe I grew out of clubbing, and really want to build my life around with things that I can do best. Sure every now and then hanging with friends and for a few drinks ain't a bad idea, I actually was hanging with Vincent, Letty and Ki last Weds at Rio and I had a blast. I guess if I could go somewhere where I can smoke, drink had some good conversations and sing my ass off I will be straight. Perhaps my surroundings have pretty much changed me. Most of my friends still enjoy a regular Saturday night gig, that being clubbing, but a lot of us are so busy sometimes that don't club as much anymore.

Now I enjoy a little massage, drink with a few friends, have a few laughs and don't wanna give a shit about the people who has talked crap about me for god knows how long, just because they can't achieve something that I can. Well you lost, I am still winning.

I guess since I have gotten back to Hong Kong, I became more and more conservative and more reserved. I guess I am heading to the right direction to go into teaching school and get my teaching degree. I should be one intimidating teacher lol.

Well August 3rd and 4th will be Macau, which I always love to go since I had a blast last time I went, August 5th for K-1 Grand Prix in Hong Kong (Man love to see Remy Bonjasky's kicks in person). and "Summerslam" on August 18th, that should be a fun time with the boys. It seems like for the first time in the 4 years I have been back, I finally found my confort zone. Bagua didn't do much for me, being and Executive Assistant wasn't that much fun either. I realized in order to make something work, I cannot rely on everyone around me, because not too many people will understand what I want to do and willing to do, and things are began to set tone and I can't wait when things come out doing well and evolve on its own.

There are several projects I am working on, and I am dying to see the success that comes out of it. I love it when every time people doubt that I can never make it and think I look like shit, and at the end I come out smelling like a rose and they all are eating the same shit they thought was the best goddamn thing in the world. Well it was like when someone was saying I can't be dealing with Jakks during my trip to the US, because I was incapable to talk to the high-ups, well one 200 pages of my own background work and information that they could not get proved otherwise. Now I am the one that basically put the stopped to stolen goods from the factory for Jakks. Yes I was the snitch lol, and I get my stocks directly from them. So to the naysayers, bite my fat ass!

I know I came through hell and back to achieve what I am doing and I want to make sure things go well no matter what. Because I see the potential that I have the what I see in some people that can make it happen. You have a problem with me doing that? Well when was the last time I give a ratass about one may think? If I never went ahead to do something that I think that can be done. I would be like the bunch of people that doubted me. I proved my point, made my point and now I made it. I know that's a major fuck you to a lot of people, but well, all I have to say is, "You could do it too, if you believe in it."

I have a huge ego, but my ego is what kept me being able to do the damn thing that I can that nobody can. There is a train ride that will leave you to paradise, and if you believe in it, you jump on it, and people that first believe it then doubted it jumped off and they lose out. I am still driving to paradise. Because I will always believe in what I am able to achieve.

The aftermath of the Benoit tragedy...

Sun, 01 Jul 2007 18:48:06 GMT

Well June 26th marks one of my ex's birthday (Yes Mai's birthday was never hard to remember), it also marked the day that Chris Benoit died. Who still is one very wrestler that I mesmerized about. People made a lot of judgement to Benoit's alleged double murder on his wife and son before hanging himself. And all I have to say is, fuck the media because the police can't prove jackshit until forensic and autopsy results are in. I used to have respect for Nancy Grace from CNN, now she can kiss my ass. That creepy bastard in the name of Bill O'Reily from Fox News, you too are a snake sucking scumbag.

I haven't really talked to wrestlers lately because I have been so busy. But after this incident, I contacted several of them. What happened had me in tears that morning, and I could tell the entire wrestling community went on such emotional and dellusional stage. Chris Benoit's death really has a major effect on us. Even for the entire last week, I wasn't quite myself as I got really cranky. I think it took me quite a while last week to actually had the Benoit death sunk in.

Anyway, enough of wrestling for now. Meanwhile, there was something on my last blog that I have not mentioned. May 27th, was that day, 4 years ago. I still remember and I still miss it. It was the first night. These memories are all in my head, can get it away. I remember when I was on business trip, since it was the week after that particular day. I remember looking out of my window. And really wished you could share this moment with me. Now the whole case with the toy crap in China is over. The moment I know it's finished, I wanted to tell you that I did something that no one can do and wanted to share that moment with you.

Well it's not happening now. It's sad that I still think about you. Maybe I am stupid, maybe there was just something you made me think of you. Whatever the case is. I just wanted to say, I have not forgotten about May 27th and every year I still go to that place when we first met, just to get the feel of it, and to think back to that night. It was too sweet not to remember, the joy on our faces (and how tired I was from a 14 hour flight from New Jersey to Hong Kong). I still remember the delay and still talking to you on the phone while I was waiting to get out from the the Rhode Island plane so I could board on the plane to HK as soon as I could, and was talking to you at the same time. Running from one gate to another, carrying a huge hand carry while I was doing that. I still dunno how I managed to do that. That hand carry must have weigh a ton. You should've been there, and you would laughed right out of your ass.

May 27th, what a night that night was...

Out of HK for a week!

Sun, 03 Jun 2007 20:32:47 GMT

Well it's been a while since I updated this blog. Life is great, no fuss, no bullshit. So that's sweet, haven't been clubbing for weeks, seven weeks to be exact. I have been way too busy to even think about going clubbing, I go to JC from time to time though. The boys are always hilarious.

My left eye sight has been pretty bad over the past few years, and it got to a point where I can't ignore it and need a pair of glasses. Well I finally got them last week, I guess I don't look bad with my glasses too. Has a nice touch to it somehow.

Aside from my new glasses, I had to buy a new phone as well. Been using the Sidekick II for 3 years and had no intention of changing a new phone, until one night someone sat on my lap and actually broke it (You know who you are I will just wait until you pay me in full ;)). In comes Nokia N73. Not a bad phone, love my new ringtone as well. Meanwhile, I am starting to enjoy foot massage. I been there once a few weeks ago and absolutely loved it, helps me with my sleep too.

Well finally I will be out of HK for a week, a little work vacation if you will. It's about time I take a week off and simply recharge my batteries. Stuff that's going on is about to end and this week is going to be the nail in the coffin. Let's see what Jakks US Office will say when I present the stacked full of evidence of what has been going on. This will be sweet!

Well it's 5:30am, time to get to bed and get ready to leave. Holla!

A Day In Macau

Tue, 15 May 2007 09:23:11 GMT

Well Moher's Day, my decided to go to Macau, since there was a grand opening function for Crown Hotel. My dad and my brother went, meanwhile, I became the Mama's boy and hung with my mom, walked around and shopping. It was cool though, only for the fact that I have not been to Macau for over 15 years. So it was definitely something refreshing.

When I left the harbor and was on a cab, I saw how much it changed over the last 15 years, now some of the building and the city plan looks a little like Vegas. A lot of Hotels and Casinos and definitely more things to do. Dinner was nice, as well as visiting some of the old places that I haven't been for a long time.

The only thing was I was with my family, so I guess there wasn't too much of a nightlife that I wanted to have. Next time though, I will definitely wanna stya longer and explore Macau even more. Because I haven't had enough of it yet.

Accepted and Cranberries' Dolores

Tue, 01 May 2007 11:42:17 GMT

Well finally, I am going to be a student again this year. Been away from school for the last 2 years and now all of a sudden this up-coming September I will be a student to be a teacher in the future. That's weird as hell, but it's good to bring kids at this modern age to see brighter futures, rather than looking at some kids who don't see a day of life other than messing their heads with drugs. Should be a great future coming ahead.

Meanwhile, business is doing fine, it has its ups-and-downs. But should be rebuilt very soon, the close working relationship with manufacturer is paying off fine, 3 months in time, should be a tremendous boom period.

Last week at Rio, Willie and I had this talk,
Willie: Man I dunno why I am so tired at 3am...
Me: Ah...too much sex...
Willie: Nope, haven't had sex in a while...
Me: Damn, what happened?
Willie: Well my girl's period...
Me: Oh...(Dead Slient for another 5 Seconds)

Well, Kiwi Tang lost the game with me, so she has to suffer the "consequences", it should be real funny when she has to claim her prize lol.

Rio tomorrow night, should be another night to sing my ass off. Weds night at Rio has became my regular gig, love the studio microphone, love the anticipation, it's a small place but it is a good chill spot. Anybody that read this should go there sometime. Great place to be.

Last week I finally met Dolores, who was the lead singer for the Irish band Cranberries. Hell I even have business relationship with her now (for her 9 year old son), so that's the cool part. Thanks Elaine for giving me a call on the business deal, otherwise it would've never happened. Thx!

Keeping Life Busy

Mon, 16 Apr 2007 19:02:29 GMT

I keep thinking and thinking lately, about what happened back then, had I not been thinking so far ahead of the future between us, maybe it wouldn't be in a situation that we both are in now. Everyday I think about it, and since then I have a brickwall around women that are perhaps the so-called "potential". Because I just can't see myself being with someone in a long-term relationship no more. Especially the affectionate type, it will first make me feel like a wuss, then eventually it drives me crazy, because I will hate to be a wuss, it's just so not me.

Well business is picking up, and this year should be a year that is going to be a tremendous breakout for wrestling fans in HK, because a lot more is going on and more opportunities for HK wrestling fans, it is definitely the first correct step to do such a thing. Not promoting some BS jack crap that no one care about anymore. When you have no guidelines to start off, then you have no foundation, you are stuck in the same shit all the time, I am glad I don't have to be stuck in a sack of shit like some people do.

I would rather not to have a new relationship right now, prefer an old one, in fact I miss the old one. Whenever I think about it, it's somewhat bittersweet. Being around the boys is just good enough in my view, It's always make me feel much better to hang around with the boys, to let things out. I guess I am just a simple guy that want simple things. A night at Rio drinking and karaoke with the boys, being in front of about 20 people when I use that studio microphone and sing some sweet Jacky Cheung old songs, that's fun enough for me in one night. For those that reads my blog and wants to find out where it is, just ask me. I don't bite.

Inside Joke Between the Boys

Thu, 12 Apr 2007 13:52:20 GMT

Kiwi Tang?
Easy Comer (Cummer)??
WHAT THE FUCK!?

This one is for us

Sat, 07 Apr 2007 18:32:46 GMT

http://www.youtube.com/v/6RJFWFwKNjI